Monday, April 28, 2014

Eureka Ma moment

Yesterday, I cried yet again but this time they were unconditional tears of joy...
I am overwhelmed by the response to a pic I posted on Facebook. As a rule I never share personal info or photos on Facebook.
It was a eureka “MA” moment when I did and now I am indulging the temptation to share the story...
Shouri is a superb Jazz pianist, self taught  and acknowledged as such. Having passed with merit from SXC he was in a dilemma... Music was his passion, only  love, dream, but he figured it could not sustain his lifestyle choices. He had to sort it out for himself. I have been a hands off,  undemanding Ma. My kids have never had exemplary results  in school, their school projects were never perfect cos they did it themselves. They studied without tuitions. I had reassured them that I would be proud of them even if they sold puchkas. J
He applied and got fully paid Commonwealth and Erasmus scholarships and admissions to Sorbonne, Milan, Belgium. But he turned them down. He did not want to do his Masters in Economics even if it was free. He cleared his CAT with merit and was given a complimentary admission to S P Jain and interview calls to IIM’s. He never went. I was heartbroken. Meanwhile he worked hard at my Test prep initiative OPUS and resurrected it. I had no clue as to what the kid really wanted.
The jig saw puzzle fitted some time back. He always had the American dream but we could never afford to send him. He wanted to go to the USA – the Best – Harvard, Tuck Booth for which he needed commensurate work-ex and he wanted to earn his way. He applied to many Companies, I was clueless. Future First is an Israeli Investment Banking Company trading on LIBOR. The interview was over two days. They screened 10, 000+ candidates pan India all mainly from IIT’s IIM’s. I was sure he would never make it. He did. He was one of the 30 selected.
I am proud! Super proud. He has done it on his own...
Likewise Shaunak was determined to do Law but despite having the ability to go to NLS NUJS, he was determined to go to Hazra, a local almost Mofussil college. He was confident that if he had the ability he would make it from anywhere. I was not at all sure. He was given a launch pad with a dear friend an eminent Barrister Mr M. As other senior legal brethren congratulate us on Shaunak’s achievements in three years I am relieved he did justice to our friend’s faith in him. Thank u Mr and Mrs M for a dream break.
I struggled, life was never easy, I never asked God for much but HE has given me the world in my super star sons...
My kids,  I never could give them much but they have given me the world again...
I had a dream when I did my CA and Law. I got an all India rank  and was placed in PWC which I never took up. I wanted to be on the Fortune 500 when life demanded a payback.
I daresay I am now a proud Fortune 500 Ma!

PS  I would like to thank my parents who gave me the courage to dream the impossible and the fortitude to make it come true!