Very true... Have realised it the hard way.
Whatsapping and not reaching out personally, to amend, commend. To converse
empathise and truly share not only happy but troubled times. To find the time
despite your own shit to share another person's. To feel another person's angst
despite your own is real caring. NOT frivolous mindless coffee shops, shopping
malls, clubs, drinks get togethers. Selfies and meaningless dualfies. Two
people in the same frame, not knowing who the other
is. To reciprocate and understand... To find the time... Nope! Not there! So
easy to live in a bubble and assign blame unilaterally! Not see what the other
stands for. Learnt the hard way that nowadays "I care" is lip
service. Time and empathy are at a premium! Expectations are endless. No one
wants to live and let go. Harbour silly grudges without knowing why? Learnt the
hard way that you cannot keep understanding the other person is busy, Its hard
to learn that someone you stood for simply is not there! Life in this material
world is no longer a two way street but a one way alley... IT starts with I and
ends with me
